tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88945282011-07-14T17:40:29.876-07:00Abused Men: the hidden half of domestic violence. Men have few resources in which to obtain help. In many places men are the ones arrested even if they are the only ones battered. If we do not look at both sides, we will not resolve any of this. There is seldom a conflict between two adults where both do not add to it. Shattered Men looks at BOTH sides with a focus on men. Shattered Menhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16156743199740843258noreply@blogger.comBlogger271100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8894528.post-60195273575618965462007-05-16T11:57:00.000-07:002007-05-16T12:08:41.829-07:00

Shattered Men was originally founded on Oct 31, 1999. We had 990 members and over 40,000 messages when it was hacked into and destroyed. We will rise againhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/Shatteredmen/Needless to say, I was heartbroken but not defeated. We have lost a lot of valuable information andabout 40,000 messages from Oct 1, 1999 until this morning. We had 990members in SM and we will

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ShatteredMenShattered Men is honored to be one of the organizations involved in this report. You can help strengthen this by joining the Shattered Men interactive group by clicking "join now" in the top right corner of this site:http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/shattterdmenRADAR ALERT:VAWA Violates the Civil Rights of 2,000 Americans Every DayEqual protection under the law. Due process.

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As most people know, there are laws prohibiting abuse of a spouse,or a child...but did you know that currently, battered MEN take aback seat? How can a tiny woman of her stature and her stance abuse you, a sixfoot, whatever, MAN? That question is one that curls my toes, andsprings me back to life, even on the most boring and mundane ofdays...because that little woman is USUALLY the very one

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The Early Show on CBS had a segment on a new women's shelter createdafter a police chief murdered his wife and then took his own life.I am not sure of the actual situation in this case, but I do knowmany of these happen when one is falsely accused and are about tolose all they have. I sent this to the Early Show. (there isa "contact us" at the bottom of their web site:http://www.cbsnews.com/

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I just wanted to say how wonderful I think it is that I have finally found a league of CHRISTIAN Anti-Feminists! Because Christians, of course, know much more about the oppressions of women and have a greater right to make the claims they do... right? Using the Bible to back you up really makes it so much more legitimate. But I believe I diverge...where was I? Oh, yes: You have distorted the

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Father's for Justice (F4J) has been accused of a plot to kidnap Tony Blair's son.That's what the BBC is currently broadcasting to the world: that this`fathers' advocacy group' made an attempt to snatch the young son ofthe British PM back around Christmas time.They include a decent disclaimer clip from Matt O'Connor, attestingthat F4J's whole aim is to keep and re-unite fathers with theirchildren,

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Humpty Dumpty Many of us, when going shopping for groceries need to get eggs. I know by watching people when they are getting eggs, will most often open each cartoon and look at each egg. They will then either put that carton in their cart, or back in the bin with the eggs and look at another carton. Of course, we know they are looking for broken eggs. This reminds me of something. We

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The Sign!(see the sign here:) http://www.shatterdmen.com/Sign.htmThe sign above was made by brother in law used a router. This was about 6 months after Shattered Men was founded. At that time, my wife as not as supportive and we had a major argument. My wife was doing yard work and was burning twigs and leaves in the yard (we have 5 acres so there were a lot of it) You guessed it. I got mad

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A Formidable EnemyNote, there are many hot links in this message that does not show uphere. Please go to the web site and you will be able to click onthese hot links for more informationhttp://www.shatterdmen.com/Enemy.htmIt was 1776 when Benjamin Martin and his farming community in South Carolina could once again, hear the drums of war beating in the distance. Martin had already been through the

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ShatteredMen Personal Responsibility! Wow, what a concept in our permissive society. A mother drowns the kids and some groups try to blame her husband. A teenager takes a gun to school and shoots his classmates but it is not his fault. If his parents controlled his behavior.... Personal responsibility. No one wants it. Few take it yet it is one of the main things we need in society today. If

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ShatteredMenCONTROL and ABUSE !"Because "I" said so!!!"Anyone remember hearing this when they may have asked "why" aboutsomething?Most often it is said in a loud voice, often with hands on hips orfolded in front of them. Seldom can any further dialog takeplace. "I said so" ends any chance of discussion.Let's take a look at this some more by looking at this from twoprospectives.First, most of us

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CHRISTMAS 2004 Impressed Or Depressed? As we approach Christmas 2004, I can think of no other event that has changed the course of history as that first Christmas over two thousand years ago. You see, without the events of that first Christmas, the most important event would not have occurred.Today when most think of Christmas, they see santa clause, reindeer, holiday

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30 Minutes to Pack And Leave Your Home Forever ACFC ANALYSIS - You Have 30 Minutes to Pack And Leave Your Home ForeverThanks to Stuart Miller for forwarding this excellent Letter tothe Editor of the Irish Times from Mike Spaniola of Colorado,where the vicious agenda of a local "women's shelter" fundedby VAWA was recently revealed in a pornographic obscenityand hate crime

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30 Minutes to Pack And Leave Your Home Forever ACFC ANALYSIS - You Have 30 Minutes to Pack And Leave Your Home ForeverThanks to Stuart Miller for forwarding this excellent Letter tothe Editor of the Irish Times from Mike Spaniola of Colorado,where the vicious agenda of a local "women's shelter" fundedby VAWA was recently revealed in a pornographic obscenityand hate crime

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Are Men More Evil? Feminist often brag that about 90% of all prison inmates are men. They use this to exert the "moral superiority of women. They use these figures to show that men are more dangerous and some even try to show that "all" men are rapist or child abusers" (this giving the fact that women do 2/3's of all child abuse) Lets look at something to see WHY many more men are in prison

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The First Step to Better Relationship Most of us have problems with relationships from time to time. When relationships become abusive we all know serious problems are present. It is my intention to post the basic emotional needs of both men and women shortly. If these needs are not met, it can set the stage for abuse to start. There is one major step before this that should be the FIRST step

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V-Day, a non-profit corporation, distributes funds to grassroots national, and international organizations and programs that work to stop violence against women and girls 

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Don't throw your crayons 11/5/04 The ridiculousness and stupidity of "domestic violence" laws continues to sink to new lows as witness the following story from Avon, in Eagle County, Colorado near Vail: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Avon school principal's husband arrested for throwing crayons Abstracted from an article in the October 10,

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EJF newsletter - Don't take the kids to Colorado 6/30/04 For well over a decade parents who home school their children in Colorado have been teaching their little people to go to another room and hide if someone comes to the door because it might be child protective services (CPS) case workers. In El Paso County one Christian couple packed up and moved out of the United States after a

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Over the next several days, we will be posting "REAL STORIES from both men and women who have been victims of domestic violence. Unless we look at BOTH sides of this issue, we will only make the problem worse. Mike's Story I am an abused husband and I can't take much more. All Hell is breaking lose and when I tell my pastor about it he just tells me to love my wife more and suffer well. My home

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Statistics can be manipulated. When one gets funding based on these statistics manipulation can be very rewarding. If I did a study on the number of people who purchased a grill cheese sandwich, and got paid for each grilled cheese purchased, it would be tempting to call any sandwich with cheese a grilled cheese. Of course this would not be honest. There are a number of reasons we do not

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Father Facts: Top Ten Father Facts: From: THE NATIONAL FATHERHOOD INITIATIVE(NFI) http://www.fatherhood.org/fatherfacts_t10.aspGET THE ENTIRE BOOK with a NFI T Shirt FREE when joining the NFI 1. 24 million children (34 percent) live absent their biological father. 2. Nearly 20 million children (27 percent) live in single-parent homes. 3. 1.35 million births (33 percent of all births) in 2000

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The First Step to Better Relationship (how to have eternal life) Most of us have problems with relationships from time to time. When relationships become abusive we all know serious problems are present. It is my intention to post the basic emotional needs of both men and women shortly. If these needs are not met, it can set the stage for abuse to start. There is one major step before this that

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TAKE BACK SOCIETY! One of the first things we hear from society in general when we say we are "antifeminist" is that we do not like women. I believe in reality, the feminist (meaning the gender or radical feminist) are the ones who do not like women. I think they really are male wanna be's who have a low self worth. If we notice, may of those that do feel this way do put others down that they

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GET INFORMED what you do not know WILL hurt you.  

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"If you will not fight for the right when you can easily win without bloodshed, if you will not fight when your victory will be sure and not so costly, you may come to the moment when you will have to fight with all the odds against you and only a precarious chance for survival. There may be a worse case. You may have to fight when there is no chance of victory, because it is better to perish

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Myth: 95% of all abuse victims are women Fact: Unbiased research shows that an equal number of men and women are victims. http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm It is dangerous to accept as "fact" research that depends on their findings for their funding. Myth: 35% of women who visit medical emergency rooms are there for injuries related to domestic violence Fact: National Institute of

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